Pamela Caldwell

Pamela Catherine Caldwell, 45, of Syracuse, NY, passed away peacefully at home on the evening of Friday, July 18, 2025.

Born on September 29, 1979, in Media, PA, Pamela was the beloved daughter of Marilyn (Martino) and Paul Caldwell, and the devoted sister of Andrew and Matthew (Ashley).

She is also survived by her cherished dog and constant companion, Tank, who brought her comfort and unconditional love over the past five years. Their bond was a beautiful reflection of the way Pamela lived — with heart wide open.

Pamela was known by all as kind, loving, and full of quiet strength. She lived her life in service to others — not through grand gestures, but in the small, consistent ways that truly matter: a listening ear, a warm embrace, a silent presence in moments of need. She had a gift for making people feel seen and safe, and she was always there — steady and generous, expecting nothing in return.

If humans have superpowers, hers was forgiveness. Pamela had the rare ability to extend grace where others might hold on to hurt. Her heart was open, wide, and welcoming — always choosing to heal rather than harden. Those who knew her were better for it. Above all, Pamela was a teacher — not just in profession, but in spirit — quietly teaching those around her the power of grace, kindness, and patience.

Her happiest moments were simple and heartfelt: reading a good book, watching movies or TV, spending time with friends and family, and cuddling Tank. Pamela gave love freely and accepted it humbly. Her spirit lives on in the lives she touched and the hearts she soothed — memories of her are enduring lessons in how to live with gentle love and compassion.

Calling hours will be held Sunday, July 27, from 3–6 p.m. at Burns-Garfield Funeral Home, 3175 E Genesee St., Syracuse, NY. A funeral Mass will be celebrated Monday, July 28, at 11 a.m. at Holy Cross Church, 4112 E Genesee St, De Witt. Inurnment will take place Tuesday at St. Mary’s Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, the family invites donations in Pamela’s memory to the Motley Mutts Rescue organization — a cause dear to her heart.